Please help me I am confused!!!Only serious people answer, Please?
Question by : Please help me I am confused!!!Only serious people answer, Please?
I am 29 years old and married for 7 years.We dont have kids yet.My husband is suffering from a condition from whihc he can never bear me a child.He wants me to use a donor sperm.I totally despise it.It bugs me to think that i have to bear the kid of a person whom i know absolutely nothing about.I have a very close friend who is happily married with a kid.He is also a doctor. This person has agreed to give me a kid.I would really love to have his kid.I am actually in love with this person.But he doesnt love me but owing to sympathy or lust which i am not sure myself he has agreed for this arrangement.If i have to have a kid from a donor, it will involve cycles of painful hormone treatment which may have to be repeated many times until it becomes sucessful.After taking so much trouble (its an emotional roller coaster ride), I dont want to have a kid whose roots or genetical track is completely unknown to me.As long as i am young, I stand a better chance to consume naturally with less complications from this doctor friend of mine.Yes it involves lots of risks, I can only immagine.First of all I will have to trick my husband into believing that it is his kid only.(He is in selfdenial of his situation and he thinks maybe if we do it after a long while he can bear me a kid.So he has abstained himself from sex for about 2 years now.I can decide on a date to do it wiht doc and same day do it with hubby and thus make it look like the end result is his kid only).I know it sounds pathetic and i feel like a slut.But i badly want a kid.The natural way.I cant leave my husband because he is too sick and he needs me and i will never be able to be happy with another person.I am pretty much sure he will take care of this baby as his own because he is a very nice person.But i wish for a baby of my own.Is a baby worth all these risks?I am so confused….Please help me…I dont know what to do and i dont want to lose away my precious time..
Thank you so much for your replies.I just wished for a baby so much!!You guys are right…It will only add up to a iceball of my problems.I will not consider that option.Hopefully, god will show me some way out of this hell hole and emotional tug of war
Best answer:
Answer by Deborah Nutting
The only thing that I can say is not to be deceitful. It will not be fair for your husband, the possible child, the real father or his family. That is a burden that has potential to ruin lives.
Also, I think that if you are “in love” with a man that is not your husband, then you should not stayed married. Although your husband is sick and “needs” you, it will do much more damage to him in the long run if you lead him to believe that you are happy with him.
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May 20, 2012
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Q&A: What quality would you like to add to your favorite WRESTLER + YWWA Call To Greatness Results Part 1?
Question by Psycho Dude 99 (YWWA Owner): What quality would you like to add to your favorite WRESTLER + YWWA Call To Greatness Results Part 1?
Match 1: U.S. Title Match Deadman 4 Life(c) vs rkolegacy
The opening match to a historic ppv. And this match was sure the way to start off the night. At first rko opened the match with full control for the first few minutes. But as time grew so did Deadman’s momentum. He utilized his strength advantage. But after lifting up rko for a powerslam, rko reversed it into a DDT to gain the advantage again. He eventually worked on Deadman almost ending the match on 2 occasions. One of them being after an enormus superplex on the larger Deadman from the top rope. But Deadman was able to kick out. As the match went on there was a point where rko locked in a chin lock. But out of absolutely nowhere Deadman locked in his Hell’s Gate. Everyone stood on their feet thinking it would end. But rko fought through for 20 seconds until he eventually reached the ropes. Deadman was pretty surprised that rko did not tap. And as he began to pull him up rko hit his RKO for a shocking win. Nearly half of the crowd was cheering for rko, but all boo’d as Undisputed Jericho made his way to the ring. He grabbed a mic and congradulated his apprentice. He then offered rko the chance to be apart of Wave Of The Future. But he then demanded rko hand over the title to him. He said he deserved it more and himself and rko knew it. But finally after months of torture rko had enough. He spit and slapped Jericho across the face knocking him down. He then left the ring with the crowd thundering with cheers and Jericho in an angry mood.
Winner rkolegacy New U.S. Champion
Match 2: YWWE Batle Royal Winner Gets a YWWA Contract Jorden 23 vs Kofi vs USA-WHOLE vs Twighlight vs Thomas vs James
A new match concept for YWWA that happened for the first time on this night. The match started with the fans not too involved but became a surprisingly entertaining match. After only 30 seconds Jorden made an early impact by tipping Thomas and James; who were both by the ring ropes, over the ropes for the elimination. The match rolled on when a minute later Kofi hit a missle dropkick from the top rope onto Twighlight which sent him out of the ring. It was then down to 3. After putting on a pretty good performance, 3 minutes later Jorden lifted Kofi over his head using amazing strength, and threw him over the top rope. But at that moment USA attacked Jorden at a weak moment. He eventually set up for a big DDT, but Jorden changed it up to a unique move similar to the chokeslam. Only Jorden did not lift up USA, USA was chokeslammed while he remained on his feet. He called it the Jorden Dunk. And that took USA out of the match making Jorden able to throw him out of the ring. The crowd was more than pleased to see Jorden win.
Winner Jorden 23
Christian #1 Peep tries to break the world record for most consequtive roller coaster rides
With #1 Peep at an amusement park #1 Peep found a ride he adored. He rode constantly. There was a video package of him riding “The Death Ride” 163 times. 1 short of the world record. But as he was in line for the record breaking time the ride broke down. #1 Peep was furious and trashed the park and all other rides. He eventually ended up giving the park manager his Spinning Unprettier.
ROB VAN DAM BACKSTAGE
An odd moment to say the least. RVD was confused and a little ticked that someone stole his wrestling boots. He said he knew it was RNW. But RVD expected nothing of it. He was prepared to fight Jericho without any protective footwear. But RVD and the fans saw RNW’s joke as a complete failure.
Match 3: Tag Title Match Psycho Bears(c) vs The World Is Ours
The anticipated bout turned out to be one of the best of the night. Since the bell rand Alex and Y2J had something about them. They had a spark that made them have the advantage. But The Bears eventually gained the advantage back and took it to The World Is Ours. Alex and G Bear brawled while Y2J and Psycho Dude did. Eventually this fight led to Y2J and Psycho Dude the legal men in the ring. And G Bear and Alex fighting on the outside. But soon the announce table came into play. With G Bear and Alex on it G Bear hit his Grizzly Function through the table nearly breaking Alex’s neck. While this left Y2J and Psycho Dude. A minute after the incident on the outside Y2J locked in his Arm Trap Crossface. But Psycho Dude reached the ropes after 25 seconds of being locked in. As the fought again Psycho Dude went for his award winning Thunder From Down Under, but Y2J moved and Psycho Dude drove his knees into the refs face. With the ref down Alex went insane. He grabbed a steel chair and nailed it off the skull of G Bear busting the Bear up. He then stood on the apron, and as Psycho Dude went for a second Thunder From Down Under, Y2J shoved him into the ropes leading to the chair shot of his skull and Y2J rolled him up for a giant win for his team. Gaining them their well deserved first Tag Titles in YWWA.
Winners The World Is Ours New Tag Champs
Match 4: Ope
Part 2: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20090904175612AAowSRQ
Best answer:
Answer by E & C- Connection Established
How come E & C isn’t on the card?
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May 19, 2012
Tags: call, favorite, greatness, like, Part, QUALITY, Results, would, WRESTLER, YWWA Posted in: Needle Roller Bearings 5 Comments
What do you think about my story?
Question by : What do you think about my story?
I’m not complete happy with what I was able to achieve in that few hours. Anyway, don’t answer until you don’t see THE END yet, unless you are bored with it. And yes, it is rather long. (around 1,200 words)
Feel free to be straight to the point. Criticism is welcome. Just don’t be rude, please 
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Today is my first day at work. I’ve always wanted to make people smile. The theme park is quiet. It is still early in the morning with just a few rays of sunshine. The workers are going around and testing all the attractions – myself included. I like the feeling of moving. However, I still don’t know how it feels like to have someone ride me.
The families are the first to arrive. Two little children ride in one car. They were named Elise and Elijah. They are twins. Their parents are waiting for them at the bottom, taking pictures of their two beloved children. Elise is laughing hard. It is because Elijah is afraid. After going around slowly, the people go out of the cars.
“How was it?” I could hear their mother say.
Elise was giggling. “Elijah was so afraid.”
“I was not!”
And they all laugh. Unlike me, they are alive. They have emotions, feelings, lives.
The afternoon carries on. Lots of children had fun while riding me. It just makes me feel what they would call ‘happy’.
Days go by. Weeks go by. Months go by. Years go by. My job is still the same. It does not bore me to listen to the innocent chattering of the children. It does not bore me to see their smiles as they reach the top. My job does not bore me.
Every now and then, interesting children come on board. Today, two young teenagers rode. One of them is Elijah, the first boy that rode on me. He is with a young girl. Her voice is sweet and kind. She is Jessica. I feel the beats of Elijah’s heart. This must be what they call ‘love’. He holds Jessica’s hand.
“I love you,” he says. But Jessica does not say anything. Tears flow down from her eyes.
“I can’t.”
Elijah frowns.
My first experience of ‘love’ is not ‘happy’. Jessica had rejected Elijah. She must have had her reasons. That is what I think.
The following week, Elijah goes aboard me, alone. He sits and watches the hills afar. Soon, they will be covered with snow. He sighs, and he leaves just like that. That must have been what they call ‘sadness’.
Days go by. Weeks go by. Living is a small town, there are not many children left here. Most of them have grown up and the population of children has become smaller. The theme park is quiet. Only few go here now.
Today, the workers are taking me apart. I feel their hands dismantle me piece by piece. It does not hurt. I am a machine. I do not feel pain. I would like to say I am sad, but I cannot feel sadness. I would like to say I am content, but I cannot feel contentment. I would like to say I am happy, but I cannot feel happiness.
They place me in the truck, together with parts of other attractions. We are moving. We are moving to a big city.
Hours go by and my metals are jolted in the truck. We are still traveling. Sometimes we stop because the drivers need to eat, but it does not take long before we are on the road again.
Days go by and we finally arrive.
It is a bright and early in the morning. The workers reassemble me to the best of their ability. They work fast. Soon, I am whole again, ready to do my job.
It does not take long before this theme park opens. Many people flock in even though it is still early. There are children, teenagers, adults, and even grandparents. Their faces are happy and excited. For the many years I have been a Ferris Wheel, I have come to know many human emotions and expressions.
I wait for the excited children to ride me. I wait. I wait. And I wait. It is dark now. The people preferred to ride the more exciting attractions. The lines were never-ending for the roller coaster, the big drop, and others that bring out what they call ‘adrenaline’. No one wants to ride a slow and old Ferris Wheel like me.
Days go by, and I only watch from afar. This must be what the humans call ‘envy’.
Days go by. Weeks go by. Months go by. Years go by. Decades go by. A century goes by. This town is now forgotten. Time has weathered its beauty. Time has weathered me. I and the other attractions are isolated from society. We are just remnants of yesterday.
Time has made me wise. I do not long for children to ride me. If they do, I might crumble.
Days go by. Today, I hear voices. It has been long since I have heard a human voice. How long exactly, I do not know. I do not bother to listen to them. I know better now. But they come closer. I cannot help but feel ‘tempted’ to listen. So I do.
The teenage boy is named ‘Eo’. With him is a young lady by the name of ‘Lexi’. The names have grown stranger as time passed.
“This is…” The girl could not find the exact words.
“Yes. It’s a Ferris Wheel,” Eo says.
“How did you find this?” She says, as she feels my rickety metals with her soft hands.
“I found a journal in my grandfather’s house. It belonged to someone from our family named Elijah Smith. He wrote the exact address and date where he first confessed to his wife, Jessica Green.”
That must be Elijah, that young boy Elijah, that teenage Elijah. Jessica must have loved him after all. I am ‘happy’ that it turned out good for them.
“And?” She opens the car door and sits down inside. Elijah sits in front of her.
“And he confessed in this very Ferris Wheel.”
“Here? How do you know for sure?”
“Here in this Ferris Wheel, but not here in this place.” He explains.
“Then,” Lexi stops but continues, “how did you find this?”
“Well, the internet is very useful.” Elijah steps out of the car. Lexi follows him.
“Come on,” he says, reaching out a hand to her.
They climb up my worn down ladder. Lexi is
They climb up my worn down ladder. Lexi is first. Below her, Eo is following carefully. They are careful not to break me, not because they care for me, but because they do not want to fall. They reach the top and sit down. They watch the stars twinkle above us. Soon, they leave.
Days go by. Weeks go by. Months go by. Years go by. Lexi and Eo are growing. They are adults now. Eo opens a car door for Lexi. Lexi does not hesitate to go in. For some time, silence is between them. Soon, Eo stands and kneels.
I do not bother to listen anymore. I am an old Ferris Wheel. My metals are rusty and they will soon break. I am ‘happy’ to be here for these two. I am ‘happy’ that I can witness their love.Tonight, they left in each other’s arms.
Days go by. Weeks go by. The couple has not returned since. I do not want them to come back. I do not want them to see me. I was no longer new. I am no longer rickety. I am ‘content’.
THE END
So, what did you think?
Oh, and I titled it “Rickety: The Life of a Ferris Wheel”
The sentence structure is meant to be simple and repetitive because… I have no idea.
It may be childish because the inspiration for this is my younger sister who keeps pointing at Ferris Wheels whenever we pass by one.
The paragraphing makes it seem like it is cut short or that something is missing. At least for me, it does.
NOTE: These Y!A errors are starting to annoy me :/
AHAHAHA ^^; Thank you
I was planning on making it a really short, kinetic, visual novel, though. A shortfilm would be good, too.
Reading it over again, I’m spotting some typographical errors. Y!A doesn’t allow edits. You really don’t need to point out typographical errors anymore.
Best answer:
Answer by Dan
i dont have an answer
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May 18, 2012
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